What should I do if my boyfriend is sexually apathetic?

Once a boyfriend becomes sexually apathetic, a girlfriend will definitely be hit hard and will become discouraged over time. As we all know, whether it is between a couple or a husband and wife, being able to maintain a harmonious sex life for a long time is crucial. However, if a boyfriend becomes sexually apathetic, a woman needs to be more tolerant and understanding, especially to fully consider the psychological and physiological problems of her boyfriend, to take the initiative to help her boyfriend find the reasons, and to actively solve the problems.

What should I do if my boyfriend is sexually apathetic?

1. Pathological sexual indifference. Some men's sexual indifference is pathological. Since I am not a professional and don't know how to cure it, it is best to seek help from a professional doctor.

2. Psychological sexual indifference. Some men cannot get over their own psychological barriers and think that sex life is not so sacred and beautiful, and it is even more direct and simple than doing it themselves. So they will also show indifference, but in fact his needs are also the needs of normal men, but he just solves them by himself. In this case, you must communicate with him well and seek help from a doctor when necessary.

3. Physical fatigue. Most of the men who are sexually indifferent are overly tired. They don't feel like having sex when they are tired, because sex is very physically demanding. So they will also be more indifferent. This requires wives to be more considerate and create a relaxed atmosphere so that men feel that sex is a rest.

4. Seasonal sexual indifference. Some men even have seasonal sexual indifference. For example, in autumn and winter, wearing thick pajamas, it is normal to be too cold to have sex. In spring and summer, wearing simple clothes or even sleeping naked will naturally arouse desire and increase the frequency of sexual life.

5. Another situation is that after a couple gets married, especially after they have children, the frequency of sex will also decrease. Although sometimes both of them have the intention, because taking care of the children or work distracts most of their energy, the woman often sleeps next to the child, and the couple sleeps in separate rooms, so naturally they don't have as much sex as they would like. This cannot be considered sexual indifference, and one party needs to take the initiative to hint. For example, tell the other party that you took a shower today. The other party will naturally come to you.

Conclusion: As long as sexual indifference is not pathological, everything else is easy to deal with. It requires joint efforts from both husband and wife. After all, sex life is the most mysterious and intimate behavior between husband and wife. If there is no sex life for a long time, the relationship between husband and wife will be affected to some extent. Don't bear it for the sake of face. It's okay for one or two days, one or two months, but it will cause problems after a long time.