How often is normal for a man to have sex?

Before the reform and opening up, few people talked about sex because people were very conservative about it. With the development of society, people's thinking has changed. Some men will compare themselves with others to understand their own situation. The comparison includes the length of sexual life and how often they have sex. So how often is considered normal for men?

First, how often is it normal for men to have sex? Sex is first and foremost a conversation: an interaction between two people, full of surprises and perhaps beyond expectations. So sex is physiological, hormonal, and occasionally pragmatic, but it is first and foremost emotional: it is enhanced and enriched in the encounter with each other. If sex is preceded by the modifier of "must", then we no longer obey the call of desire, but regard sex as an obligation, an order given to ourselves.

Second, the anxiety of not having enough sex can also stem from the fear of not reaching the "normal" standard. Some men need to use sexual ability to prove their masculinity. They will try every means to find out those "measurable" indicators: the size of the penis, the frequency of sex, the duration of persistence... When their partners find out that they don't really want to have sex subconsciously, but want to prove it, they will refuse this kind of sex that is only used as a tool. However, some women are also looking for evidence sometimes: having sex makes them feel that they are still very charming and attractive.

Third, the author of the famous American sex research book "The Sex Plan for a Lifetime" said: "You can't be wrong, because the correct frequency of sexual intercourse depends on the preferences of both of you." There is no difference between meeting the standard and not meeting the standard, only the difference between happiness and unhappiness. Sometimes, even zero frequency can maintain a good relationship.

How often is normal for a man to have sex? If a man develops normally, is healthy, and has no bad habits, then the frequency of sex is affected by age. Usually between the ages of 20 and 30, the frequency of sex can reach four to six times a week, between the ages of 30 and 40, the frequency is about two to four times, between the ages of 40 and 50, the frequency is about two times, and above the age of 50, once a week is about the same. Therefore, we must first rule out whether there is any abnormality in the body before we can judge whether the frequency of sex is appropriate.

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